If we've decided to break out of our day to day lives in some way (e.g. to start a new career, to move house, to get fitter), then it makes sense to me that we would need to break away from our old thinking that created our old life.

Whatever question you have, you know someone who can answer it. It's easier than you might think.

We’re three months away from the end of the decade, a perfect time for contemplation. Where were you 10 years ago, at the end of 2009? Look back at what was going on that year and how far you've come since then…