Which part of you is shouting loudest?
I’ve talked about mindfulness before and I’ll do it again because it’s a critical tool for self awareness. The more awareness you have, the easier it is to make simple changes to your mindset that will help you achieve the outcomes you want.
Have you dropped the ball?
Have you got so much, on that you're worried about dropping the ball on something important? The fact is, you most likely will. The best thing to do, is to decide to drop it now - on purpose.
Challenge for International Women's Week
As a woman I often feel there’s as much pressure to break societal rules (‘be the first’) as there is to follow them (‘be the best’). It’s pretty tiring carrying the weight of that.
An interesting way to assess your wellbeing
By raising awareness of what energy we’re allowing into our mind and body, we can make changes to better support our well being.
What saying no to chocolate has taught me about willpower
Why is my willpower suddenly working where it never has before?
Are *you* responsible for adding to your own stress?
A level of stress, pressure and ‘striving’ can obviously be helpful when working to achieve your goals - but there are moments where surrendering, allowing or pausing will actually allow you to create a better outcome.
The judgement of others is just a distraction
Re-centre - stop trying to hang out in someone else’s head and get back in your own body. And make the choice you know is best in that moment.
Being vs. doing
When you’re thinking about your next career move don’t think about what you want to ‘do’, think about how you want to feel.
Improve your leadership in 2021
My invitation to you this month is to decide how you want to improve your own leadership skills. If you’re in a role with no direct reports, don’t kid yourself into thinking that you’re not in a leadership role. People are watching and following.
Managing your Christmas mindset
With work, family and Covid-19 to juggle, it’s no doubt Christmas can drive people barking mad. But there’s action you can take to make sure you’re in the right headspace to deal with any coming stress.
Has Covid-19 forced you to reconsider...?
It won’t surprise you to know that most people need a shove to find a new job, and the interesting development this year is that Covid-19 has been a massive ‘push’ factor.
Be your own Business Development Manager
Managing your career is a lot like being a Business Development Manager. These are just a few ideas to get you thinking differently about how to approach your next career move.
You know you get frustrated at work, but have you ever asked why?
When we get triggered at work, it's worth understanding the underlying cause. The better our self awareness, the more we can adjust our environment and relationships for positive outcomes.
Getting value from the dreaded annual appraisal
In the corporate world, we're often required to write an annual appraisal of our performance. I know that attitudes to this process can vary wildly between companies, but it almost always fills it’s participants with dread.
Who are you?
The better we know ourselves, the easier it is to make aligned decisions - from short term straightforward decisions to the more life changing ones. So I’ve made a super simple exercise to kick off your personal enquiry.
Looking after yourself in lockdown
With so many of us back in lockdown and working from home, it’s more important than ever to make time for your own wellbeing.
Your listening skills aren’t as good as you think they are
The default setting for most people is to listen for similarity and agreement. This means our minds are filtering information looking for the nuggets we agree with and distorting the rest.
‘No’ is not an ugly word… but multi-tasking can be
Saying yes too often weakens our focus, resolve and commitment. Saying no is a healthy practice to protect our boundaries, time and what's important to us.
How to challenge people, well
It's possible to challenge people and for it to land well but it can require effort and skill to achieve this.